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Hi, I’m Mindy. I’m a single mother of two who gives it her all to be the best she can be, it’s a one day at a time process.

“Learn to value yourself, Wich means to fight for your happiness. “

– Ayn Rand

I am 29 years old. Unless my self to believe if I didn’t allow myself to find love and happiness I couldn’t get hurt. Wich soon only grew into me constantly selling my self short.

I will write about how I got where I am today. Also will blog certain keywords that I’ve struggled with and what they mean to me!

From the blog

             What is love? 
This a a question myself and many others may ask there selves daily.
How do we know what is love? I believe if it happens and we fall in love our hearts will no.

   What love is to me? It's something that two people work hard to build without loosing there commitment or faith.
Things won’t always be great. Your partner may do things that will make you angry, but if you are willing to not look at it as obstacles, but rather as opportunities for growth, then you are truly in love.”
In my opinion there are many steps to keeping your true love

1. Security
A. Love is having partner ship, having a companionship and a best friend
3. Give and take
A. Completely opening your feelings and sharing them with your significant other.
B.keep in mi d that in order for it to work it must be mutual.
A. “To me, a healthy relationship is built on respect for one another. Each person understands the commitment they are making to the other person.
5.being in synch
A. Being in agreement
B. Meet halfway, finding solutions
A.The key to success in a healthy relationship with someone is actually the terrifying but necessary effort of commitment. Being there for someone is what a real relationship needs. When we neglect to put in the effort is when things don’t work out with someone that could have been perfect for us.
7.growing together
A. To teach each other as life goes on
Equally water the garden so. Your carrots all grow together instead of separately
9.heakthy communication
A. If something's wrong your partner can't work on a solution if they aren't aware that there's a problem.
B. Honesty when communicating
A. Everybody takes play
B. 50/50
C. Teamwork
11. Patience
A. To be patient to be kind
. Good things don't happend over night and great things take times.
12. Acceptance
A. To always know and not forget nobody is better than the next we have flaws.
B. Accept the fact that we won't always like everything about a person
13. Forgive and forget
A. We're only human we make mistakes and we learn from the.
Let go and move on
14. Loyalty
A. To be faithful
B. To be honest
C to not cheat to always have eachother back

Finally to me love means ride or die and no other way and mabey someday I'll mean that much to someone.

Posting new tips every week

About Me

Im a warrior, also a single mother. I struggle daily to overcome my illnesses. Addiction is real and so is chronic anxiety and also a survivor of 6 years repeated domestic violence. I survived I got out not all make it out . Afterwards I got weak, I felt hopeless and sad Wich is when my vulnerability could no longer fight addiction I began to let it win az it slowly took over me and my life.

In with the next year I have several goals and there is no other option other than completion!

  • Let sobriety take over my lifestyle. To not forget I know I have atleast one more relapses but let’s be honest do I have one more recovery.
  • To realize that there are good n bad things about myself but it doesn’t mean it’s ok to self hate.
  • Remember if I don’t live myself I can’t live anyone else. Take one-day at a time and by February be stable enough for the girls to return home to there mommy.
  • Keep all appointment
  • Whenn I feel week reach out for help
  • Get a steady job
  • A house stable living environment
  • Organized schedule
  • Keep all appointments
  • Live a happy healthy safely life with my girls and stay sober